Sex Toys for Lesbian Couples

How do F/F couple sex toys work?

Strap-ons rely on a harness that holds a dildo in position, freeing up hands for other interactions. The universal Body Dock harness accepts any dildo with a flat or standard suction cup base, allowing you to combine different sizes and textures according to your desires. As for the technical specs: the Fetish Fantasy Strap-on range offers insertion angles ranging from 15° to 30° depending on the model, a parameter that directly influences G-spot or A-spot stimulation.

Suction cup dildos offer a harness-free alternative: fixed to a flat surface or to a partner, they allow for solo or partner use in varied configurations. Borosilicate glass plugs, like those in the Intense Cristal range, add a dimension of simultaneous stimulation during strap-on use; the thermal compatibility of glass also allows them to be run under warm or cool water before use.

The different types of F/F sex toys

• Strap-on dildos with integrated harnesses: all-in-one kits like the Fetish Fantasy Strap-on range, which include an adjustable harness and matching dildo. Convenient for beginners, featuring quick assembly and straps adjustable to larger hip sizes.
• Universal harnesses: the universal Body Dock accepts any dildo with a compatible base, allowing you to build your setup freely according to preferences in size, material, or shape.
• Fantasy suction cup dildos: the Epic range (Ashtar, Nokken, Empousa, Furies models) and the Pipedream King Cock line offer realistic or fantasy designs with a suction cup base for attachment to smooth surfaces—a harness-free option for more spontaneity.
• Plugs and simultaneous stimulation dildos: Intense Cristal borosilicate glass plugs and CalExotics Size Queen XL dildos for those who want double stimulation or to progress to larger formats. To explore other plugs, check out the anal plug selection.

How to choose the right sex toy for an F/F couple

• Depending on the type of use: if you are a beginner with a strap-on, an integrated harness + dildo kit is easier to handle than a universal harness with a separate dildo.
• Depending on the size of the dildo: start with a diameter close to what you are already familiar with (around 3.5 to 4 cm is often cited as a comfortable starting point) and always use a lubricant suitable for the material.
• Depending on the material: medical-grade silicone (non-porous, easy to disinfect) is preferable for shared use; borosilicate glass is also non-porous and tolerates temperature variations.
• Depending on the harness: check the strap dimensions and their adjustability; some models cover hip measurements from 60 to 130 cm, while others are more limited. A universal harness offers more flexibility in the long term.
• Depending on the intended practice: for simultaneous stimulation of both partners, some Body Dock harnesses allow for the insertion of a second dildo facing inward; otherwise, adding a plug or an external vibrator remains a simple option.